To some, the art of seduction may seem like a natural talent. For others, it may feel like a “mission impossible”.
If you find yourself in the latter category, never fear! With a little bit of know-how and practice, anyone can learn how to seduce their boyfriend.
In this article, you will discover the top 25 best tips on how to seduce your boyfriend.
25 tips on how to seduce your boyfriend
Seducing your boyfriend may seem like a daunting task, but it is actually quite easy once you know how. Here are a few tips to get you started.
1. Wear a shirt without a bra
There’s something about the way a shirt looks when it’s sans bra that is both alluring and empowering. Maybe it’s the way your nipples peek through the fabric or the way your breasts look a little bit more natural. Whatever the reason, going braless in a shirt is a surefire way to seduce your boyfriend.
To pull off this look, start with a button-down shirt in a lightweight fabric. Then, make sure you’re not wearing anything underneath – no tank top or camisole. If you’re feeling self-conscious, you can always wear a jacket or cardigan over top. But we promise, your boyfriend won’t be able to resist once he gets a glimpse of your bare skin.
2. Send him dirty text messages
Sending him dirty text messages out of the blue will spice up the relationship because it could be something new to him.
Here are some dirty text messages you can send to your boyfriend:
- I feel a little naughty tonight.
- I’m touching myself looking at your picture now.
- I feel like licking something hard. Should I get a Popsicle or something else?
3. Touch his private part in public
When you do this, make sure no one sees it. You can choose to grab it directly, or gently rub your fingers outside his pants near his private part.
Do it quickly, for just about 3 seconds, then you should remove your hand. This will make him want more from you. If you are feeling bold, you can put your hand inside his pants, grab his private part and give him a naughty smile.
4. Get undress in front of him and then walk away
If you want to seduce your boyfriend, get undressed in front of him and then walk away. This will leave him wanting more and eager to see what you look like naked. Make sure you’re wearing something sexy when you do this so he can’t resist getting a glimpse of your body.
5. Press your boobs against him
Whether you’re wrapping your arms around him in a hug or leaning in for a kiss, this move is sure to get his attention. And if you add a little extra pressure as you lean in, he’ll definitely get the message that you’re interested in something more than just a friendly embrace. So go ahead and press your boobs against his – he’ll love it.
6. Give him a massage
To start, have your boyfriend lie down. Then, pour some massage oil into your hands and rub it into his back. Start with long, slow strokes and then gradually increase the pressure. If he seems to be enjoying it, you can also massage his buttocks and thighs.
As you massage him, pay attention to his body language and breathing. If he starts moaning or breathing heavier, that’s a good sign that he’s getting turned on. You can also try whispering dirty things in his ear as you massage him. When you’re finished, he’ll be relaxed and ready for anything you want to do next.
7. Touch yourself in front of him
Squeeze your boobs a little or rub your private part a few times in front of him will definitely make your boyfriend go crazy. You can do this with clothes or sexy lingerie on.
You can also do this while watching movies with him, and then whisper to his ear saying you are already wet. No normal man can resist this move.
8. Role play fantasy
You can role play as a nurse, treating a patient and giving him some special “treatment”. Or, you can role play as a naughty student who is trying to get an “A” from her professor. You can use any other common theme of the adult film. The main point is to act and have fun together.
9. Pretend to pick up something and raise your hip
While you may not think it, something as simple as picking something up can be quite seductive. To do this move, start by pretending to pick up something off the ground. As you do this, raise your hip slightly so that your boyfriend gets a good view. This move is sure to get his attention and have him thinking about you all day long.
10. Talk about fantasy
Fantasy can be a great way to spice up your sex life and relationship. It can also be a great way to get to know your partner on a deeper level. Here are some tips on how to get started with fantasy:
Talk about what kinds of fantasies you each have. Fantasizing about something together can be even more fun than doing it alone.
Be respectful of each other’s fantasies. What turns one person on may not do anything for the other person.
Make sure you are both comfortable with any role-playing or props that you use. Fantasy should be fun, not scary or overwhelming.
Take turns being in control of the fantasy. This can help you both feel more comfortable and let each other know what turns the other person on.
11. Play make-up music and dance romantically
There’s something about music that just makes people want to move. It’s like a natural aphrodisiac. And when you add in some sensual dancing, you’ve got a recipe for seduction.
Just imagine grinding up on your man while slow, sultry music plays in the background. Or getting him in the mood by dancing around the room to some sexy R&B tunes.
If you really want to get things heated up, why not put on a private dance show just for your man?
12. Wear seducing lingerie
Whether you’re wearing a lacy thong or a slinky nightgown, your boyfriend will definitely take notice. And once he sees you in your sexy lingerie, he won’t be able to resist getting closer to you.
13. Make out passionately
When it comes to making out, there are a few key things to keep in mind if you want to really drive your boyfriend wild. First and foremost, be passionate. This is not the time to hold back or be shy – let yourself go and enjoy the moment.
Secondly, use your hands to explore his body and get him worked up – run them through his hair, down his back, and over his chest.
And finally, don’t forget about the power of eye contact. Looking deep into his eyes as you kiss will make the experience even more intense.
14. Do a sexy striptease
A striptease is a perfect way to seduce your boyfriend and get him in the mood for some fun. Here are a few tips on how to do it right.
First, make sure you have the right outfit. Something that is sexy and makes you feel confident is key. You want to feel comfortable and sexy in what you’re wearing so that you can move around and really get into it.
Second, set the mood. Dim the lights, put on some music that gets you both in the mood, and maybe even light some candles. The more relaxed and comfortable you both feel, the better.
Finally, let loose and have fun! This is about enjoying yourself as much as it is about turning your boyfriend on. So dance around, get playful, and enjoy the process of seducing your man.
15. The no-hands rule
Do whatever you want with him but then tell him not to touch you back. You can lick his neck, fling your asset in front of him, or bend down while looking back. Most of the time, your boyfriend will feel irresistible and want to touch you. But, again, gently remove his hand, and whisper to him, “you are allowed to watch only”.
16. Grab him and give him a naughty smile
When you want to seduce your boyfriend, start by getting his attention. Give him a naughty smile, and then grab him and pull him close. Whisper in his ear what you want to do to him, and then let your hands wander. Be sure to touch him in all of his favorite places, and make sure he knows that you’re enjoying it too. Once you have his full attention, there’s no turning back!
17. Ask him to give you a massage
Seducing your boyfriend can be a fun and easy way to spice up your relationship. One way to do this is to ask him to give you a massage. This will not only relax you, but it will also give him a chance to touch you in a more intimate way. Make sure that you are both comfortable with this before starting, and be sure to communicate with each other during the massage so that it is enjoyable for both of you.
18. Take off your bra
Most women don’t realize the power they hold simply by taking their bras off. It’s a simple act, but it can have a profound effect on your boyfriend.
Take your bra off at a time when you know your boyfriend is already feeling hot and bothered. Maybe you’ve been making out or fooling around for awhile and things are getting steamy. Or maybe you’re already in bed together and he’s starting to explore your body. Whatever the case, take your cue from him and make your move when the moment is right.
When you take off your bra, do it very slowly. If you are feeling naughty, you can decide to wear it back. It will drive him crazy and want to rip your bra apart to get you naked immediately.
19. Do chores panty-less
First, start by doing some of your usual chores while wearing miniskirts without panties. This will get his attention right away and get his mind thinking about what could happen next. Make sure you bend over a lot and give him plenty of chances to get a good look at your body.
Next, try doing some more suggestive tasks like washing the dishes or folding laundry. Again, make sure you give him a good view of your body as you do these things. You can even talk dirty to him while you’re working to really get him going.
20. Put on perfume
First, take into account what kind of scents he likes. If he’s into fresh, citrusy aromas, then go for something like lemon or grapefruit. But if he prefers something sweeter or muskier, then opt for vanilla or jasmine.
Once you’ve zeroed in on a scent, apply it sparingly to pulse points like your wrists and neck. These are areas where body heat will amplify the fragrance, making it more potent. Then, you just need to lean closer while speaking to him.
21. Lick a Popsicle
When you’re licking it, let your tongue run wild, swirling around it and lick it like you are like doing a blowjob while looking at him. And don’t forget to suck! The suction will heighten his sensation and drive him wild.
22. dirty games
Simple games like paper, scissors, and stones will do the job. The winner gets to command the other person to do whatever he/she wants, and of course, you want to ask him to do some dirty things. Go slow on the game, from asking him to give you a massage, and help you to take off your bra, to slowly licking your private part. You can also play some card games that are designed to enhance intimacy for couples.
23. Dress up the way he finds sexy
Many women think that to seduce their boyfriends, they need to dress up in ways that are traditionally considered sexy. However, this is not always the case. Every man is different and therefore, what one man finds sexy, another may not. The best way to seduce your boyfriend is to dress up in a way that he finds sexy.
To find out what kind of clothing turns your boyfriend on, you will need to pay attention to his reactions when you wear certain types of clothing. If he seems especially interested in what you’re wearing or if he compliments you more than usual, take note. These are the kinds of clothing that he finds attractive on you.
Once you know what kind of clothing your boyfriend likes seeing you in, make an effort to wear these types of outfits more often.
24. Look at his lips when you talk to him
When you’re talking to your boyfriend, take a look at his lips. You may find yourself getting lost in them and wanting to kiss him. This is a great way to start building sexual tension between the two of you. Plus, it’ll give you an opportunity to see if he’s interested in what you’re saying. If he starts licking his lips or looking back at yours, it’s a good sign that he’s into you.
25. Send a sexy picture
Don’t just send 1 picture of yourself. Instead, send him a series of pictures where you are slowly unbuttoning your shirt. Then, you should stop after sending him a picture of your cleavage.
Next, ask him to buy you wine by 9.30 pm to unlock more buttons. This will definitely drive your boyfriend crazy and can’t wait to see you tonight.
A word from Charismatic persona
When it comes to seduction, there is no one-size-fits-all approach. Just as every person is unique, so too is what turns them on. However, there are some general tips you can keep in mind when trying to seduce your boyfriend.
The most important thing is to be confident in yourself. If you don’t believe you’re sexy, your boyfriend won’t believe it either. So stand tall, make eye contact, and exude confidence.
Another tip is to take things slow. Don’t try to go from zero to sixty in five seconds flat. Start with some innocent flirting and gradually ramp up the intensity. This will build sexual tension and make the eventual payoff all sweeter.